Thanks to Khanista for recommending another great site, Psycanics.com
"You realize that happiness really is within, and that nothing external can or will ever make you truly happy. You fully realize that you are the Creator of all your psycanic (non-physical) experience; of your thoughts, emotions, relationships, experience of love, and of ALL your pain or happiness. You stop neurotically trying to control external things to control your internal feelings. Every negative experience becomes the opportunity to find and discreate its cause within you so that negative emotion stops recurring in your life. Events and relationships become mirrors that let you see who you are and from that, change to Who You want to BE. You free yourself from all compulsions, pain and limitations, and you free yourself of all compulsion to control others, and as a result, your relationships transform."